What we need for happy life?

Friends
In this fast moving competitive world, how many of us leading happy life? we cant say that. for the entire life we run for searching some thing - that is Money. Some how we are instilled from our childhood, money is very important in life. yes it is. but it is not the only one. In my view Very good Friends and Family is the important ones. Family is always special for every one. if our parents or brothers/sisters are doing any thing wrong (according to us) we can tell them. they would change if it is really wrong. we can bring them in to our way. then the family would be very good with out any misunderstanding. But friends ---?
If you are good, your friends also will be very good. How can we messure the term "Good". Simply i can say "LOYALTY IN FRIENDSHIP" Good friend always think the good for his friends. If we are good, then we will get very good friends. If we get very good friends, our life will go very happy.
Last but not the least - many of us think - we need very good guy/gal for life. That is trivial. Try to identify a person from your friends circle make him/her as your life partner. Then there will be no ego, no compulsion and no problem.
I have got good family - lovable mother and affectionate brother....
But i have very good friends - who always think good for me. always point my mistakes to correct myself.
I am trying to identify a life partner from my own friends circle - If i get one, I will be the luckest person. Otherwise move ahead with the existing life! Cheers!

My inspiration in life!

Today i have achived considerable amount of victory. For people from city, this may be very normal. But person like me hailing from a village from an agriculture family and first scholar, yes this is an achievement....
I dont say i have studied very well. I enjoys my life in my UG and PG. but to get in to UG and PG i prepared a lot. the amount of dedication was really great. Now i am working in a MNC and sitting in so called"USA" and writing this blog. It is really achivement
For my entire life, i have got the inspiration from my Mother. She is the person has full of vision and energy. My friends used to say that i have lots of energy. But compare to my mom i am nothing. in my previous post i ahve written about my dad. Though my dad was not supportive, my mom stood her own and made me in to this world. Her approach is always different. in tamizh we have a proverb " Thirudan kaila saavi kodukkarathu" (giving the key to the thief). when ever i ask for money, she never said no. she gives and talls me - i know you spend a lot. i also know about you that you dont drink and smoke. you always eat a lot and spend for some dress and shoes. i dont mind you spend like this. this is your money, if you spend less, i will give the savings to you. otherwise i will tell you how much you need to pay to the debtors (even then i didnt limit my expenditure:))
I really dont know how will i react to my children. but i can see i cant be comparable with my mom.
If she would have got opportunities like me, she would become a great entrepreneur. that is sure!